How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 02.07.2025 00:33

How does one succeed in life?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Why cant I motivate myself to go to school (grade 10)?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Do not set goals—set systems.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Procrastinates a lot.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

Does not procrastinate.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Making more friends is a goal.

That's it for today.

Ask yourself: